A MESSAGE to my DAUGHTER – ANN ELIZABETH
TRAINA
TRAINA
“Your children have come into this world
because of the two of you. Perhaps you two made lousy choices as to whom you
decided to be the other parent. If so, that is your problem and your fault.
No matter what you
think of the other party—or what your family thinks of the other party—these
children are one-half of each of your. Remember that, because every time you
tell your child what an “idiot” his father is, or what a “fool” his mother is,
or how bad the absent parent is, or what terrible things that person has done,
you are telling the child half of him is bad.
That is an
unforgivable thing to do to a child. That is not love. That is possession.
If you do that to your children, you will destroy them as surely as if you had
cut them into pieces, because that is what you are doing to their emotions.
I sincerely hope that
you do not do that to your children. Think more about your children and less
about yourselves, and make yours a selfless kind of love, not foolish or
selfish, or your children will suffer.”
because of the two of you. Perhaps you two made lousy choices as to whom you
decided to be the other parent. If so, that is your problem and your fault.
No matter what you
think of the other party—or what your family thinks of the other party—these
children are one-half of each of your. Remember that, because every time you
tell your child what an “idiot” his father is, or what a “fool” his mother is,
or how bad the absent parent is, or what terrible things that person has done,
you are telling the child half of him is bad.
That is an
unforgivable thing to do to a child. That is not love. That is possession.
If you do that to your children, you will destroy them as surely as if you had
cut them into pieces, because that is what you are doing to their emotions.
I sincerely hope that
you do not do that to your children. Think more about your children and less
about yourselves, and make yours a selfless kind of love, not foolish or
selfish, or your children will suffer.”
POOF: http://defend-yourself-go-pro-se.blogspot.com/2012/07/minnesota-judge-has-200-blunt-words-for.html
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